Frequently Asked Questions

What is a K-E-A-N Canada Event?

K-E-A-N Canada Events is a volunteer-run, community-based organization that hosts events for adults exploring consensual kink, BDSM, and alternative relationship dynamics. Our goal is to create inclusive, educational, and safer spaces where attendees can learn, connect, and express themselves authentically. K-E-A-N stands for Kinksters Experienced And New.

Who are your events for?

Our events are open to adults (18+) of all experience levels who are respectful, open-minded, and interested in consensual kink and alternative lifestyles. We welcome individuals, couples, triads, and polycules of all orientations, genders, and backgrounds.

Are these events LGBTQIA2S+ friendly?

Absolutely. K-E-A-N Events are explicitly inclusive of people of all gender identities, expressions, and sexual orientations. We center 2SLGBTQIA+ inclusion, and many of our team members and presenters come from within queer communities. We are committed to creating spaces that are welcoming, affirming, and safe for everyone.

Do I need to be kinky to attend?

Not necessarily! While our events are kink-focused, you don’t need to be experienced in kink or BDSM to attend. Many of our workshops are beginner-friendly, and our events are a great place to explore your curiosity in a safe, supportive environment. We welcome anyone who is respectful, open to learning, and aligns with our core values. We do ask that have open minded and respectful to all (or all in our community).

I’m nervous or new or returning after a break. Is there someone I can talk to?

Yes! We get it—walking into a kink event for the first time can feel intimidating. If you are new, nervous or returning to events, our events have hosts and info tables available to answer questions and help you feel more comfortable. You’re not alone—we’ve all been new!

Is this legal?

Yes. K-E-A-N Canada Events operates within the legal frameworks of Canadian provinces where our events take place. All play must be consensual, between adults, and follow local laws. Illegal activities (including non-consensual acts, drug distribution, or solicitation of sex for money at events) are not permitted. 

We work hard to ensure our events do not cross legal boundaries, and we ask attendees to do the same.

Are your events public or private?

While K-E-A-N Canada Events are public-facing, they are not fully open to the general public like a music festival might be. Our events are carefully curated spaces designed for adult attendees interested in kink, BDSM, and consensual non-normative sexuality. We value safety, consent, and shared values, and we prioritize fostering a community where participants feel comfortable and respected.

What should I expect at an event?

Each event varies! You might find:

Workshops and demos (e.g., rope, consent negotiation, impact play).

Dungeon and take over events.

Discussion groups or Q&A sessions.

Social mixers or play parties (depending on the event).

Vendors offering kink gear..

Educational materials.

 

Detailed information is available in each event listing at k-e-a-n.com/events.

Do I have to participate in play?

Not at all! Many people attend just to learn, meet others, or observe. Participation is always optional, and you can always change your mind at any time. 

However all parties must consent to play to negotiation terms, if you do play, only play to your level of comfort.

 

What should I wear?

Munches: These are in public spaces, so casual or discreet kink-friendly clothing is great.

Dungeon Nights: Wear what helps you feel confident, sexy, or expressive — from black jeans to latex!

Educational, Social Nights, and Conference Events: The Dress code will be listed in the event details. If you’re unsure, please ask us!

Does K-E-A-N Canada Events have a membership?

Nope! There’s no membership required. Just register and pay for the events you want to attend.

 

Are your events accessible?

We aim to make our events as accessible as possible.  If the event space is not accessible, we do include that in the posting.  Some venues are wheelchair-accessible, and we do our best to provide quiet spaces or seating when needed. If you have specific accessibility needs, please reach out before the event, and we’ll do what we can to support you. 

I'm new! Or Returning to the Scene! Can I attend a K-E-A-N Canada event?

Absolutely — that’s what we’re all about. No experience or prerequisites, just:

  • Read the rules ahead of time and follow the rules of the event
  • Practice good consent
  • Respect others and their boundaries
  • Play safely
  • Sign the waiver!  
  • Submit your payment! 

Rules are outlined during registration for the event.

 

Can I bring someone who’s never been before?

Yes, but they must meet all eligibility requirements, sign the waiver, and follow all event rules.

 

When are the K-E-A-N Canada Events?

You can always find our full listing at k-e-a-n.com/events

 

When are the Munches?

These are casual, non-kink events in vanilla settings! Come enjoy food, drinks, and good company.

 Please RSVP only once (Facebook or FetLife) so we can give restaurants accurate numbers. Please don’t arrive early and sit in the reserved area — it breaks our agreement with the venue.

  • Edmonton: Held monthly, typically the last Thursday before the last Saturday of the month.Time: 7:00 PM – 10:00 PMLocation: Fargo’s, 4976 98 Ave NW, Edmonton, AB T6B 2Y7

 

  • Calgary: Typically held on the 1st Monday of each month. Time: 7:00 PM – 10:00 PM Location: Joyce on 4th, 506 24 Ave SW, Calgary, AB T2S 0K4

Watch for special events like our Calgary Summer Park Munches!

 

When are the Dungeons, play parties, and take-over events?

If the address is not publicly listed, the address and details will be shared with you once registered for the event/dungeon.

Edmonton Dungeon Nights/b> Usually, the last Saturday of the month 7:30 PM – 1:00 AM No invitation required — just register on our website and RSVP. k-e-a-n.com/register 

Calgary Kink and Dungeon Nights Typically, the first Saturday of the month 7:30 PM – 1:00 AM On KNetic Club nights, doors open at 8:00 PM Register and RSVP online — no invitation needed. k-e-a-n.com/register 

For full details or specific questions, feel free to contact us directly. 

 

Do you host Kinky Markets?

Yes! We host Kinky Markets each year—in both Edmonton and Calgary. These markets are a great opportunity to discover local artisans, makers, and kink-friendly vendors. We also often have night vendors at events

Interested in becoming a vendor? Apply here!

 

Do you offer Educational & Connection Events?

We host educational classes, social connection nights, and specialty events throughout the year in both cities. Some are vanilla-friendly, others are more kink-focused. Check our events page for more details — or contact us if you’re not sure what’s right for you!

What is WCPE and the Kink Compass Conference?

Western Canada Power Exchange (WCPE) is a regional contest celebrating authority exchange relationships rooted in trust, communication, and intentional power dynamics. Contestants compete through interviews, presentations, and scenes, showcasing their personal dynamic styles.

We held the 2024 Contest in February 2025. Moving forward, WCPE will take place annually on the last weekend of September — our next event is September 27, 2025, launching the contest year for 2026.

The Kink Compass Conference is a cornerstone event of learning, connection, and community! It includes workshops and dungeons all geared toward navigating your unique kink path. Join the adventure!

Whether you’re brand new or experienced, Kink Compass offers something for everyone — all in a safe, welcoming, and affirming environment.

More information can be found on this at k-e-a-n.com/wcpe or on Fetlife at the 

Western Canada Power Exchange and the Kink Compass Conference Group https://fetlife.com/groups/313279

Or email us at wcpecompass@gmail.com for more information 

 

I hear you have a K-E-A-N Slow-Pitch Team?

K-E-A-N isn’t just about dungeons and education events—we also have a slow-pitch team! We currently participate in one tournament per year, and it’s a fantastic way to connect with our community in a fun, low-pressure, sporty environment.

Upcoming Tournament:  May 30 – June 2, 2025 Details can be found at k-e-a-n.com/events

We’re also looking to expand our slow-pitch activities in summer/fall 2025 and beyond, so if you’re interested in joining the team or just cheering us on, keep an eye out for updates on our site and socials. All skill levels are welcome—just bring your community spirit and maybe a glove!

 

What do I have to bring to a K-E-A-N Canada Event?

You must bring government-issued ID.

You’ll need to sign a waiver. The name on your ID must match. Let us know if you go by another name — we’re happy to support you with discretion and care.

The name must match the one on your waiver. If it doesn’t, you’ll be asked to complete a new one.  

Bring an open mind and a friendly attitude as everyone has a different kink and perspective, everyone no matter their kink is welcome.

 

What’s your refund and Transfer of ticket policy?

Refunds and transfers of tickets are generally not offered unless an event is canceled.

Event Cancellations and Rescheduling At K-E-A-N Canada Events, we strive to ensure a smooth experience for everyone. However, sometimes things happen that may require us to cancel or reschedule an event. Here’s what you need to know:

  • Event Cancellations: If an event is canceled, we will issue a refund for the guest fees to the email address that provided the email transfer. For payments made by cash, refunds will be issued to the email on the waiver.
    1. Notification: Cancellations will be posted on our Facebook, FetLife group, and website as soon as possible, so please check those regularly for updates.
  • Event Rescheduling: If an event is rescheduled, you will have two options:
    1. Attend the Rescheduled Event: If the new date works for you, you can simply show up at the new time.
    2. Request a Refund: If the new date doesn’t work for you, you can request a refund instead.

In either case, please email us directly if you need assistance with your refund or rescheduling preference.

Do I need a partner to attend?

Nope! Many people attend solo, and we welcome everyone! Individuals, pairs, and polycules alike. Whether you’re new or experienced, there’s a place for you here.

Are you a business or a non-profit?

K-E-A-N Canada Events is a volunteer-driven, community-centered initiative. While we may charge for tickets to cover expenses (venue rentals, supplies, educator fees), we are not-for-profit in spirit and practice. We believe in accessibility, transparency, and collaboration.

 

What are your Photography and Media policies?

Photography and Media We take privacy and discretion seriously at K-E-A-N Canada Events. While we do not allow photos or videos of people without explicit consent, here’s some clarification:

  • Event Organizers: Event organizers may be asked to take photos or videos of those involved in a scene. This will always be discussed and approved by the individuals involved prior to capturing any media.
  • WCPE Recording: Some or all parts of the Western Canada Power Exchange contest will be recorded for later viewing and promotional purposes. Contestants and attendees will be notified in advance, and permission will be obtained.
  • Social and Munch Events: For social gatherings and munches, photos and recordings are typically more permissible. However, we still ask that you seek consent from people in the photo or video, especially if it’s being shared online.
  • General Rule: Please remember to be respectful and mindful of everyone’s comfort and privacy. If you’re ever unsure whether it’s okay to take a photo or video, always ask for consent first. 
  • Dungeon, Play Party and Take Over Photography & Privacy: No personal photography or video is permitted. Phones must remain out of sight. You may not attend any professional media, legal, or investigative capacity.

Cell phone use and other recording devices: We understand that some people need to have their phones with them, so please go outside of event to answer. But phones and cameras are NOT permitted to be used within event as privacy is important.

Can I drink when I’m at a K-E-A-N Canada Event?

Some events allow alcohol — if so, it will be clearly stated.

Responsible consumption is mandatory. If you’re visibly intoxicated, especially at a play event, you may be asked to leave.

Irresponsible behavior may result in removal from the event without refund, and potentially in being unwelcome at future events.

Still have questions about what’s allowed? Ask ahead of time for the best results!

 

What is your Substance Policy?

No illegal substances are permitted. Anyone appearing intoxicated, even from legal substances, may be denied entry or asked to leave at the host’s discretion. If you are removed you will be responsible for your removal transportation via a friend or paid transportation via cab or Uber.

 

What’s not allowed at a K-E-A-N Canada Event?

Each event has specific guidelines, but some general rules include:

Scene Restrictions – Some scenes require prior approval and host supervision. These are listed in the event waiver.

Non-Permitted Scenes – Some scenes are prohibited entirely due to safety, venue policies, or legal reasons. These are not judgments — just limits set for everyone’s protection.

What are the General Rules at All K-E-A-N Events?

General Rules at All K-E-A-N Events

  • Respect consent. Always negotiate and confirm before touching, playing, or entering a scene space.
  • Safe word or if gagged, a physical signal that Monitors are aware of and can always be used.
  • Respect others’ privacy. No photos or recordings.
  • Respect the venue. Clean up after yourself, follow staff guidance, and keep to agreed-upon areas.
  • Respect the hosts and volunteers. We’re here to help. Let’s keep it kind, clear, and kink-positive.
  • Freely Given, Reversible, Informed, Enthusiastic, and Specific(FRIES) Consent Model and Personal Responsibility, Informed Consensual Kink (PRICK)  frameworks expectations — not suggestions.

Consent is Non-Negotiable. Always ask before touching people or property.

Kinkshaming or disrespectful behavior will lead to removal.

Use of safewords (green/yellow/red) is expected and enforced.

Are there Dungeon Monitors (DMs)?

We have designated event volunteers helping ensure safety and offering support. That said, you are ultimately responsible for your own safety and consent. 

If you see something unsafe or need help, report it to a host immediately.

What happens if someone breaks the rules of your events?

We take consent and safety seriously. If a concern is raised, we follow up respectfully and thoroughly. Consequences may include removal from the event or future events. If something happens, talk to a host or send us an email. We’re here to help.

How do you deal with Conflict Resolution & Guest Behavior issues?

We are committed to maintaining a safe, supportive, and respectful environment at all K-E-A-N Canada Events. If a conflict arises, we encourage clear communication and written follow-up to ensure all concerns are properly addressed. We value constructive feedback and will not tolerate the broadcasting of grievances online without first allowing us the chance to address them respectfully.

Addressing Concerns: If a conflict or issue occurs during a K-E-A-N Canada event, we encourage those involved to reach out to us via email at keancanadaevents@gmail.com. 

While we do welcome in-person conversations, having concerns in writing allows us to properly follow up and address the matter thoroughly. We are here to listen, provide support, and find a resolution whenever possible.

Event Incident Reports: If a situation needs to be formally addressed, please submit an email. This helps ensure we have all the details to review and follow up on the matter properly. Incident reports should include as much detail as possible. We may follow up with additional questions. Our goal is to support you, make sure you feel safe, and help prevent it from happening again to you or anyone else.

Scope of Action: We can only take action regarding concerns or complaints that occurred at a K-E-A-N event. While we may not be able to act on issues from outside our events, we welcome relevant information as part of maintaining a safe space.

Guest Behavior and Charges

To attend K-E-A-N Canada Events, you must confirm during registration that you have not been charged with any criminal offense related to violence, domestic abuse, or child abuse. This affirmation is part of our waiver and is critical to ensuring the safety of our guests. If it is discovered that a guest has charges related to conflict, violence, abuse, or other serious misconduct, we reserve the right to evaluate their eligibility to attend future events, including the possibility of denying access to protect the safety and well-being of our community.

This process is done with the safety and well-being of all guests in mind. We aim to protect our community and maintain a positive environment.

We understand that conflicts can happen, but we expect all attendees to resolve them respectfully and follow the event guidelines. If you ever feel unsafe or need support, please contact us immediately via email. We will take your concern seriously and work to find a resolution.

What if I have concerns about someone in the community?

We know this can be difficult. If you have concerns about someone’s behavior at or outside an event, or if they are attending an event, you can contact us confidentially. We will handle your report with care and discretion. We are not the police, but we can limit someone’s participation in our events if needed for safety. It is best to contact us via email at keancanadaevents@gmail.com with these concerns.  The safety of everyone in our community is important to us.

We also provide resources for those impacted by harm.

Does Kean have a store?

Yes!  We sell our pins, patches, bags, and water bottles. Support the community and show off your K-E-A-N Canada Events and WCPE pride!!

Check out the Merchandise link!

 

Does K-E-A-N have a local personals page?

Yes! We co-host the Alberta Personals group on FetLife, and welcome posts in the Kink Canada Facebook group

 

 

How can I contact you?

You can reach K-E-A-N Canada Events in a few ways:

  • FetLife: Search for our profile at KEANCanadaEvents, https://fetlife.com/KEANCanadaEvents or join the K-E-A-N https://fetlife.com/groups/193651 group to ask questions and stay updated.
  • Facebook: Search for the K-E-A-N group https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1AMh7zD4Xc/ to stay updated or to ask questions!

You can also find us on:

Alberta Kink Corner (Facebook group) https://www.facebook.com/groups/318315579899347

Kink Canada (Facebook group) https://www.facebook.com/share/g/165K8MmTRi/

Alberta Personals And Events(FetLife group) https://fetlife.com/groups/5969

Instagram,  Look for  kean.canadaevent

X  Look for @KEANevents

Bluesky: Look for @keancanadaevents.bsky.social

NuLifestyle go to https://nulifestyle.club/KEANCanadaevents

Email: keancanadaevents@gmail.com

Or talk to us in person at one of our events!

How can I volunteer?

 

We absolutely love our volunteers — they’re the heart of everything we do! To apply, simply submit your application online. Afterward, you’ll meet with our Volunteer Coordination team through an online meeting, where we’ll discuss your role and how you can contribute. Additionally, all volunteers are required to join our Signal chat, where you can connect with the team and offer your support directly. Your involvement helps keep everything running smoothly!

To volunteer apply here 

 

Is this the final list of questions?

 

Nope! These are just the ones we get the most. Got a question?

Email us, DM us, or ask at an event — we’re happy to help, and we may even add it to this list to help others, too.

Updated May 2025